The 8w9 is a softer, more people-oriented version of Type Eight.
Their 8w7 counterparts can, at times, be quite selfish and aggressive, but 8w9s have more patience. They are not only less confrontational than 8w7s, but also less materialistic and more content with what they have.
As true Eights, 8w9s still pursue their goals, but they do so while being more considerate of others.
Another notable characteristic is that 8w9s can switch their aggressiveness on and off. For example, they can be gentle spouses and parents while still being very competitive at work. They can be tough when needed, but they also need peace.
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8w9s are less energetic than the core type or 8w7s, yet they are always ready to take on challenges. Thanks to their Nine-Wing, they are good at managing their energy and enjoy their downtime.
And while they do not avoid confrontation, they pick their battles wisely.
Are you an 8w9 or a 9w8? Here are a few questions to ask yourself:
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What is more important to you: having control over your environment or having peace?
If you prioritize peace, you are probably a 9w8. On the other hand, if being in control matters more, then you are more likely to be an 8w9.
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Do you openly fight those who attempt to control you, or do you pretend to be agreeable while doing your own thing?
If you fight openly, you are probably an 8w9. If you use the second, more passive approach, you are more likely to be a 9w8.
If you still have doubts about your Enneagram personality type, try this test.
Enneagram Test Type Eight: 100 Signs You Are an Eight
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