
Here are some common body language signs you may observe every day at work, at home, or in casual conversations. Knowing these signs can help you understand others better.
Before we begin, keep in mind that body language gestures and movements should only be interpreted in the context of other movements. Almost everything is relative in body language.
Take the movement of an arm, for example. It’s usually only significant when the distance between the starting point and the ending point is significant. Otherwise, it may just be a movement.
In addition, some signs can send important messages in one context and be completely meaningless in another. Scratching the nose while listening to someone may suggest disagreement, but if the person who is speaking scratches their nose, it could also be a possible sign of lying. At the same time, scratching the nose can simply mean that the person’s nose is itchy.
Finally, don’t become body-language obsessed. Not every movement has to mean something. Reading and interpreting body language is an art, not an exact science, no matter how much we try to systematize it.
Common Body Language Signs
Talking while moving the hands or playing with a ring
This can suggest nervousness, anxiety, embarrassment, or restlessness.
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The eyes and face suddenly drop, as if the person swallowed back their expression
This can suggest guilt, shame, self-condemnation, or an attempt to hide a reaction.
Excessively jerky movements
This may suggest frustration, irritation, impatience, or inner tension.
Shrinking body movements
This can suggest low spirits, sadness, discouragement, or a wish to withdraw.
Head tilted while the fingers play with a small object or doodle
This may suggest boredom, apathy, lack of concern, or mental drifting.
Taking off eyeglasses or looking away
This may suggest, “Leave me alone,” “Don’t look at me,” or “I don’t want to deal with this right now.”
More on Body Language
- Body language signs of lying
- Body language signs of flirting
- Eye language
- Types of smiles and their meanings
- Male body language
And before you go, here’s a well-known talk by Amy Cuddy on how body language may affect the way we feel and present ourselves.
The lesson is simple: don’t only focus on other people’s body language. Pay attention to your own as well.
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