We live in confusing times, when all kinds of contradicting information compete for our attention. Entitlement mentality in self-improvement area is a good example. On the one hand, you are told to believe you are unique and amazing and there is absolutely no reason why you can’t get what you want. On the other hand, we have narcissistic personality disorder and that has some serious consequences too. What are you supposed to believe?
We addressed the issue of narcissism vs. self-esteem or asserveness here and here. The test below, however, is slightly different. It is designed to help you get a more realistic evaluation of your attitude even before it reaches the stage of narcissism. The issue with unrealistic expectations is that you are setting up yourself for frustration, anger, disappointment and sadness. So, in this sense, admitting your illusions and letting them go is not compromising your happiness and success.
Please make sure to answer all questions as honestly as you can. Internet Explorer users should allow this page to run scripts / blocked content before taking this test if the warning appears.
1. I think every project of mine should end in success.
Agree strongly
Agree slightly
Neutral
Disagree slightly
Disagree strongly
2. I become frustrated whenever things don’t go my way.
Agree strongly
Agree slightly
Neutral
Disagree slightly
Disagree strongly
3. If I do good to other people, I absolutely expect them to reciprocate.
Agree strongly
Agree slightly
Neutral
Disagree slightly
Disagree strongly
4. If I am good to my spouse, then he/she is bound to love me.
Agree strongly
Agree slightly
Neutral
Disagree slightly
Disagree strongly
5. I deserve a promotion at work simply because I do my job well and/or because I’ve been doing it for a long time.
Agree strongly
Agree slightly
Neutral
Disagree slightly
Disagree strongly
Your results will be displayed below.