Why are you single? It is not possible for us to know the specific reasons for your relationship status without knowing more about you personally. However, there may be a variety of factors that can affect one’s relationships. Here is a list of potential issues that you can consider checking to see if they apply to you. Keep in mind that this is just a suggestion and not a conclusion. It may be helpful to discuss any concerns with a therapist or mental health professional. Check all that apply.
I believe I may have trust issues.
I may be overly critical at times, and this may cause others to be uncomfortable around me.
My career is too demanding.
I often play a role in order to be more appealing to others.
I am afraid of being vulnerable and exposing myself to the possibility of being hurt or rejected by others.
I get nervous and freeze up every time I have to have a conversation with someone I am interested in.
I feel uncomfortable and frustrated with myself.
I find it challenging to open up and share my feelings with others.
I am afraid of losing my independence and becoming too reliant on my future partner.
I have difficulty committing to a relationship.
I think I avoid getting involved in a relationship because I have been hurt in the past.
I am just not into socializing in general.
I tend to be attracted to people who do not reciprocate my feelings.
I have always felt uncomfortable and anxious in social situations.
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I am too busy to prioritize my personal relationships and invest the time they require.
I think I may come across as desperate at times, and it may make others feel uncomfortable or turned off.
It is possible that I am not ready for a relationship at this time.
I worry about having to consider my future partner’s wishes and needs in my decision-making.
I have difficulty being fully present in the moment and fully engaged with another person.
I am not sure how to properly groom myself and take care of my appearance.
I struggle with feeling confident in my relationships and often don’t know how to behave.
I have difficulty staying authentic and genuine.
I have unresolved issues from my past.
I feel undesirable and unattractive to others.
I simply do not feel chemistry with anyone.
I struggle with insecurities.
I have not been able to find someone who shares my interests.
I have always had difficulty connecting with others on a deeper, more meaningful level.
Maybe my expectations are a little unrealistic.
I have been unable to let go of my past relationship.
I have a fear of being abandoned or rejected by others.
I may be overly selective when it comes to potential romantic partners.
I feel anxious and awkward around potential partners.