Initially, Choleric men and women are not drawn to each other, but there is no dislike either. There is a slight difference between men and women: Choleric males feel a little more positive about Choleric females than vice-versa. Nevertheless, they can fall in love and when they do, they thrill each other.
Choleric people are very savvy and they like someone who is equally competent and focused. They also want someone they could talk with about their common interests. Both are analytical and logical and have a “facts and only facts” kind of approach. They are straightforward people and always say what they mean, with a shared love of debates, which in turn means that they will appreciate each other for being informed and direct.
This personality type is the most emotionally contained type between all of the types. Other people might perceive them as cold and detached, but the truth is that Cholerics simply believe they need to solve their issues without emotions getting in the way. If they don’t display their emotions in public, this doesn’t mean they don’t have feelings and emotions. Another Choleric person understands that behind this tough exterior boil real feelings, emotions and needs. The most beautiful thing about their relationship is that they know that when they say “I love you” they mean it, with no need for second-guessing.
Choleric people are decisive without being impulsive. They always analyze the situation first, then they take an action with all aspects taken into consideration. They will admire each other for their decision making skills and this will prove to be where they get along the best.
Choleric people are not conventional and they will not drag each other to social events they find silly or boring. Both will prefer to spend their time in the company of like-minded friends, where they will enjoy intellectual conversations, an odd movie together, or a short vacation, as long as it doesn’t interfere with their work.
They understand each other’s ambitiousness and desire to get on the top of their field. Both understand that this takes time and commitment, and give their partner enough space and independence to do so. Choleric males and females actually enjoy the long periods of time alone working perhaps because they don’t feel the need to constantly express their love verbally.
Although personality compatibility is very good here, there are still some potential problems. They love to work, and after the first throes of passionate romance has dissipated into a longer term relationship, they might not spend a sufficient amount of time together, leaving one or the other lonely, craving for attention or passion, and more likely to look elsewhere.
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